You can wake up each morning
knowing that God wants to be a friend to you that sticks closer than a brother.
He sent Jesus to die for you so that you could be His friend. Sad to say, you
can have a relationship with somebody and not be their friend. The reason this
is true is that it takes time, effort, desire, and sacrifice to cultivate such
friendship.
Too many people don’t have or
don’t take the time to seek God in a proper way. They’re always in a hurry
doing this and that. They don’t seem to realize that if you’re too busy for
God, you’re too busy. People need to sacrifice whatever it is they’re doing and
seek God like never before. They need to know Him and Who He is. Moses and
David both had a desire to know God in a close and personal way. Abraham was
willing to offer up his son Isaac because he wasn't going to let anything
interfere with his friendship with God.
To “seek God” means to have a
face to face relationship with Him. This means God has your individual
attention and you have His. Hebrews 11:6 says that God “is a rewarder of those
who diligently seek Him.” What does He reward you with? A good life.
Too many people know about God
but don’t “know” God. Why? Because they don’t seek, crave, and pursue Him with
all their heart and soul. God must be sought after to be found. Meeting
somebody doesn't mean you “know” them. It takes a face to face relationship to
get intimate with somebody and fellowship is the key to really getting to know
someone.
When you “know” somebody in a
close, personal way you will stick to them like glue. You become one with them
and an intimate relationship is the result thereof. Before long your lives will
mingle with one another. When you know God you’ll start conceiving things down
in your spirit. You’ll get pregnant with a vision that God wants you to live a
good life.
A miracle is inside of you and it
will be confirmed with signs following. Jesus prayed in John 17:3, “And this is
eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom
You sent.” Eternal life is a good life and comes when your life is intertwined
with God’s. It is interesting to note that when you mingle with God, the devil
can’t tear you apart. You’ll look like God, talk like God, act like God, think,
love, forgive, walk, and have dominion like God. This is all part of God’s plan
to give you a good life and fellowship is the key that will cause this to
become a reality in your life.
There are four decisions you can
make that will help you cultivate a strong, binding friendship with God. The
first decision you can make is to become a worshiper of God. Paul told the
church at Rome, brothers and sisters who were friends with one another, to
“greet one another with a holy kiss” (Romans 16:16). To become friends with God
we must do the same thing to Him. How does one “kiss” God? Through praise
and worship.
Jesus said in John 4:23, “But the
hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father
in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him.” 2 Chronicles
16:9 says, “For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth,
to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him.” If you
are a friend of God He will show Himself strong on your behalf and this will
cause you to live a good life. Tell the Lord to search no more. Tell Him you’re
ready, able, and willing to become His friend.
God is searching for those who
will be loyal to Him and become His friend. What do you think will happen when
God finds such a person? He’ll “buddy” up to you. He’ll “pal around” with you
night and day. God inhabits the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3). The word
“inhabit” means ‘to settle, sit down, dwell.’ When you praise God and become
His friend He’ll sit down and dwell with you.
Let’s face it, everybody likes
praise. People like praise, cats and dogs like praise, and God likes praise.
When a person compliments you something rises up on the inside of you causing
you to respond back to that person in a positive way. You just naturally want to
bless them back and this is how God is. So praise God continually because He
wants to do something good to you. During times of trouble, back off from the
situation and praise God.
You don’t have to memorize and
quote every verse in the Bible concerning the trial you’re going through. No,
just praise God for Who He is. When you do God will show up and sit down and
dwell with you. God is forever looking to give something to somebody somewhere
so if you decide to be a worshipper you’ll be right in the center of whatever
it is God is doing. It will put you in the secret place of the Most High, a
place that promotes and gives to those who dwell there a good life.
The second decision you must make
to become a friend of God is to be determined to always live by faith. Let’s
face it, we can’t please Him without it (Hebrews 11:6a). When you choose to
live by faith you’ve made the decision to please God. Revelation 4:11 tells us
that all things have been created for His pleasure, “You are worthy, O Lord, to
receive glory and honor and power; For You created all things, and by Your will
(for Thy pleasure) they exist and were created.”
Why do you think you were born in
the first place? You were created to give God pleasure and your friendship with
Him is what He values most. Never forget, you were created to be God’s friend
and nothing pleases Him more than when His friends live by faith. You have
faith (Romans 12:3) and you need to have faith in your faith. Your faith got
you born again and that’s the greatest miracle of all. If your faith can do
that it can get you anything else. Begin to actively engage yourself in the
lifestyle of faith. Everything you do should be by faith. Never take a vacation
from your faith but use and apply your faith to everything you do.
Faith is the confidence of
“knowing that you know”, a firm conviction based on hearing the Word of God
spoken out your mouth. If you don’t have confidence in whatever it is you are
doing then you are not in faith and neither are you pleasing God. Faith is a lifestyle,
so live totally and completely by faith all the time. The just shall live by
faith and it is a constant expression that we believe God and what He says.
When you believe God with all
you've got then your friendship with Him will surely blossom. Faith isn't hard.
God is dedicated to faith and He doesn't ask us to do anything that He doesn't
do Himself. God lives by faith and when you do what He does you’ll become His
friend. How does God walk by faith? He “calls those things which do not exist
as though they did.”
The AMP Bible says God “speaks of
non-existent things that He has foretold and promised as though they already
existed” (Romans 4:17). That’s faith! Verse 18 says this about Abraham, “who,
contrary to hope, in hope believed so that he became the father of many
nations.” Verses 20, 21 says, “he did not waver at the promise of God through
unbelief, but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God, and being fully
convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform.” Abraham was a
man of faith. In fact, he is called “the father of our faith.” Is it any wonder
that God called him His friend?
The third thing you can do to
cultivate a friendship with God is to make the decision to obey Him at all
costs. Jesus set the example in the Garden of Gethsemane when He said to the
Father, “Nevertheless, not My will but Your will be done.” God called Abraham
His friend because he walked by faith and was willing to obey God even to the
point of offering up his own son as a sacrifice (see James 2:17-23).
Walking by faith requires actions
of obedience. When God told Abraham to sacrifice his son he got up early the
next morning. That’s faith. When he reached the place where the sacrifice was
to take place he told his servants, “Wait here and we’ll return.” That’s faith.
Isaac asked, “Where is the sacrifice?” and Abraham said the Lord would provide
one. That’s faith. Abraham obeyed God because he believed that God would raise
Isaac from the dead. His actions of obedience proved that his friendship with God
meant more to him than the relationship he had with his wife and son. To become
God’s friend we must obey Him at all costs because obedience is the only proof
we have that we believe God.
The story of King Saul in 1
Samuel tells the tragic tale of a man who did not obey God with all his heart.
He listened to the voice of the people more than the voice of God and thought
he could make up for his disobedience by offering up a burnt offering to God. Samuel
confronted him and said, “Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice.” Obedience
means something to God and you can never make up with sacrifice what
you lose with disobedience. Saul’s authority as king was stripped from
him and he later committed suicide on the field of battle. He learned the hard
way that no matter what the cost one must obey God rather than man. And when
you do what God tells you to do, you then are in line to be considered God’s
friend.
Consider what Jesus said in John
15:10, “If you keep My commandments you will abide in my love, just as I have
kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.” Jesus maintained
obedience at all costs and had a close relationship with the Father. Let all of
us follow His example and do the same.
The fourth thing we can do to
cultivate a close friendship with God is make the decision to become a cheerful
giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7 says, “So let each one give as he purposes in his
heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver.” The
Message Bible says, “God loves it when the giver delights in his giving. God
can pour on the blessings in astonishing ways so that you’re ready for anything
and everything, more than just ready to do what needs to be done.”
By becoming a cheerful giver you
enter into the realm of God’s love. The word “friend” means ‘to have affection
for’ and scripture shows clearly that God showed affection to His friend
Abraham. God loves everybody, saints and sinners alike, but His affection is
manifested toward His friends. God poured out His affection on Abraham because
he was a cheerful giver who was willing to give up his only son in obedience to
the Lord’s command.
The Amplified translation of 2
Corinthians 9:7 says this, “Let each one give as he’s made up his own mind (not
pressured to give) and purposed in his heart, not reluctantly or sorrowfully,
or under compulsion, for God loves, that is, He takes pleasure in, prizes above
other things, and is unwilling to abandon a cheerful, joyous, prompt to do it
giver whose heart is in his giving.”
Truly, these verses describe
Abraham and if we would follow his example we, too, can be called “the friends
of God”. When you make the decision to become a cheerful giver God will prize
you above other things. He’ll never abandon you and will be unwilling to do
without you. You’ll reach a point where you’ll be abiding in His love so much
that you’ll reach a point where God can begin to pour out His affection on you.
Why would God do this? Because you’re involving yourself in the fundamental
motivator of God’s life.
We all know John 3:16, “For God
so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son...” God is always giving.
That’s His nature. That’s Who He is. That’s what He does. When you become a
cheerful giver you involve yourself in what He has actively been engaged in
since eternity past. When you involve yourself in something He’s interested in,
in something He likes to do, He’ll begin to “pal around” with you. He’ll hang
out with you. He’ll be your friend and you’ll be His.
Percentage wise, there are not a
lot of people who make giving a lifestyle. Thus, very few people enter into a
personal friendship with God. But when you become a cheerful giver you put
yourself in a very valuable position where God is concerned. Now He can use you
as a channel through which He can bless others.
The good news is that you can
never out-give God. Your resources are limited and His are not. And when you
become His friend by making the decision to become a worshiper of God, to live
by faith, to obey Him at all costs, and to become a cheerful giver, God will dwell
with you and pour out His affection on you. You have to put yourself in the
position to receive in abundance the unlimited favors of God. That is the good
life.
*** Written By Randall J. Brewer
***
You’re frozen stiff in your bed
with uncertainty. The next thing you know, you can barely hear them say that
they are done and want a divorce.
Our Father in heaven is so
patient with us and loves us unconditionally. Consider how quickly your parents
can fall out of love with each other. Yet God will never stop loving you. When
your family has crumbled, God is your foundation to rest on.
